"Love" a mesmerising word, which is the basic for existence of human being. Had a discussion with some of the friends after watching a movie. The movie was practical. Can you hate a person whom you have loved? If you love a person and he /she refuses it, then what will be your reaction? Will you start hating that person? You can react in two ways. Either you take revenge against them or else you destroy yourself. There is a third way to handle the situation says the movie, which was quite interesting and practical.
1. If you have genuinly loved the person, you can never hate them even if they refuse to accept your love.
2. Telling someone that you will love them, if only they reciprocate it back is nonsensical. It is a true business.That only mean that your love is not pure. It expects something. Love someone without any expectations. It is not necessary for your love to be reciprocated always. Sometimes the person you love must not have felt the same way as you did. It is quite natural and noone is to blamed for such a situation.
3. Destroying yourself for not getting the love is utter stupidity. You don't respect yourself, your love, and the person around you. Both the extremes are unacceptable. If your love is genuine, stand a little far away. Adore them in your heart. Are they getting married? Go there, give gifts and bless them for their well being. That is the respect you give for your love and the person you loved.
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When will you people understand that love is nothing but oestrogen's attraction towards androgen and the person whom you love is the choice made by the way your mind is formed?
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